What’s your fondest memory of your father?
Nancy: I used to have problems falling asleep as a child. I was petrified of the dark and would need some sort of background noise. My mum was a harder person and wouldn’t give in to my childish demands, but dad always had a soft spot for me. He’d put me in the back seat of our car and take me on a drive around the neighbourhood, no matter what time it was. And without fail, within the span of five minutes I’d be sound asleep and wake up the next morning in my bed.
Chris: Definitely the time I travelled with him around China. Exploring various provinces by his side allowed me to be immersed in my cultural roots — and ultimately build a stronger bond with him.
What do you admire most about him?
Nancy: Without fail, his patience, kindness and tolerance. They all go hand in hand and define the characteristics that make up my father. As the founder of his own company, and as the authority figure within our sometimes dysfunctional family, he’s the glue that holds it all together, no matter what comes his way, and he keeps such a positive attitude throughout it all.
Chris: I see my father as a role model — I admire his hard-working and committed work ethic. It definitely resonates well with me, and I’ve integrated that attitude into my own university studies.
How do you show that you love him?
Nancy: Obedience has never been my strong suit, but when it comes to my dad, whatever he says goes. When I’m around him, and that’s not very often at all as he travels so much for work, I find myself exhibiting more selflessness.
Chris: I listen to his advice, especially the life lessons he’s taught me. Whenever we have the chance to bond, we always talk about all aspects of life, like where I see myself in 10 years’ time.